Jumat, 26 Juni 2020

"I've tried for 10 years to conceive!"

As the title suggests, I had to wait for 10 years until I was able to finally conceive. This is my story. 10 years ago, when I was 26, I was happily married to my wonderful husband, David. We both loved children and wanted to have one of our own someday. We didn't really look into doing family planning very seriously, as we were ok to start a family as long as we could conceive. 



During the first few years of our marriage, we were both still busy with our careers. We would casually try to have a baby, but it seemed like we weren't able to conceive any children. At the point of time, we thought "we are still young, it's okay to wait a little longer to have children". David and I were still happy to have each other and didn't let this become an issue between us. Over the years, people would ask us when we were going to have kids, but we simply just told them that we will just "see how". If it happens, it happens. 



When I was 32, we decided that it was about time to seriously start trying for a baby, since we are at the prime time to, and we built our careers to a point where we felt that we were stable enough to provide for a child. I was determined to try and conceive, but to my disappointment, we could not conceive. David was a little upset, but he also did not want to give up and encouraged me, saying "We will eventually be able to, don't feel bad about it". I felt like I couldn't figure out what was the problem and it was frustrating since both of us were healthy and did not have any issues. 



I related the problem to our friends, and they empathised with our situation since many of them had young children and they knew how much we yearned to have our own to take care of. They suggested we seek medical attention since it has been years since we started "trying", although it only became more intentional recently. We began looking for a gynae in Singapore, and we stumbled upon a women's clinic that seemed to be the answer to all of our problems. 



During our consultations and speaking to the gynae, he understood our struggles and our wish to conceive as soon as possible. He told us that some tests had to be taken to see what were the available options for us to conceive. So we waited for the test results for both David and me to come back, before analysing options to conceive. 



When we got back the results, David was cleared to be healthy with no existing issues. However, my results reported low levels of hormones, and because of my irregular periods, I was put on hormonal medication to regulate hormonal levels and to manage my periods. I was on the medication for a couple of months and had to monitor and track down my cycles to carefully calculate the window period in which I was ovulating in order to conceive. 



While we met our gynae doctor in Singapore for regular check-ups to see if it was going well, we had not considered any fertility treatment yet as we wanted to try to naturally conceive. The doctor advised us to go for fertility treatment as it is the fastest way to conceive and the time window for me to conceive was sensitive. However, as David and I preferred to have things go naturally, we decided to spend more time to see if we could still naturally conceive before venturing to other options. 







We tried to conceive, even after I consumed the medication that was supposed to help me. However to no avail after months of trying, it was difficult to conceive and I felt really frustrated. I just thought that it was ridiculous that this became such a huge problem and it was so difficult to get pregnant. We went back to the gynae and told him that it was not working out, and we wanted to find a solution to conceive. This was when he suggested that we take on fertility treatment, and we finally decided to take it. 



After speaking to the gynae doctor  and understanding the different fertility treatments that are available, we decided to go for IVF (In Vitro Fertilisation). We decided to prepare for it, and I underwent tests to ensure that I was suitable for the procedure. During the uterus scans, I found out that I had a benign growth in my uterus, which the gynae diagnosed as Uterine Fibroids. This meant that in order for me to conceive, I had to undergo surgery to remove it. 



I was devastated. Why me? I couldn't understand. We were so close to having our own child, and I had to have all these ailments that were preventing me from conceiving. I felt like I had let David down, so I became really depressed for quite a while. David comforted me, telling me that we would go through it together and that he does not blame me for the circumstance that we were in. 



We had to wait and schedule an appointment for the surgery, and thereafter, I had to go through a period of recovery before I was able to prepare myself for the IVF procedure. The gynae was very patient and explained the entire process to us gently and clearly, walking with us throughout the entire process. I was really grateful for that, and the support of my husband. Within a year, I was able to successfully conceive after 10 years, at the age of 36. 



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Right now, I am in my third trimester and are expecting to give birth to our wonderful baby girl in 4 weeks time. David and I are really excited and thrilled to start our next phase of life, and I'm really happy that fertility treatment has given us a second chance to have kids of our own. The journey has been filled with ups and downs which definitely tested us as a couple and individuals, but certainly, we have grown stronger from this incident, and I would want this to be able to encourage others who are trying to conceive to not give up, as it is ultimately possible. 



























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Rabu, 24 Juni 2020

Mum Nearly Went Blind!"

My Mum Nearly Went Blind!"



On my mum's 59th birthday, we went out for a lovely dinner at Robertson Quay. She loved her Greek food and so we went with the family and grandparents to one of her favorite restaurants. My mum doesn't work, she stays home, loves to cook, and makes the best home-cooked food. During her free time, she would knit, read her kindle, garden whilst getting some fresh air, talk to her sisters on the phone - she was always doing something.



Eyesight became worse



Six months after her birthday, it was in the summer of 2018 she started complaining a lot about her vision. I remember her mistaking oyster sauce from soya sauce even after reading the labels (but maybe because both are black and red in color and labeling), but mistaking salt for sugar in the food because she could not read the labels without her glasses, was a problem for her in the kitchen.



Her eyesight was gradually getting worse when she had asked whether I had seen her bok choy which she thought was spinach. I could also tell that she was getting easily irritated when she could not read messages from her phone or struggled more and more to read her kindle. We went to see an eye specialist who diagnosed mum with Cataract just before her 60th birthday. He advised for mum to be given a second opinion at a clinic specializing in  cataract surgery in Singapore.

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A cataract is an eye disease, usually developed in elderlies ages 60 - 75 years old. As we get older, it is normal that our eyesight deteriorates. It is not surprising if you notice how we live every day, we are fixed on our phones, laptops, whatever technology - TV or even books.



As our eyes due to our lifestyle are constantly strained, it's just a natural process that occurs. Whether we like it or not, we must face the consequences of using our eyes too much growing up! When we reach a certain age, everything in our vision becomes a little blurrier and can get quite frustrating. I saw that with mum, she never used to complain in her 40s or 50s, she wore glasses but it was never a big deal. The cataract surgeon  explained that usually the eye disease only gets serious later on when the functions of the eye stop working like they should naturally.



Visit A Cataract Surgeon



Visiting the clinic specializing in cataract surgery Singapore. was a big help to keep my mum's eye condition under control. They helped a lot with monitoring and advising what the next step of prevention was for the problem to get any worse. Also, she made sure she was fit and in a stable condition from going blind.



Earlier this year, in Jan 2020, mum had scheduled another appointment at the clinic. In good timing, the cataract surgeon advised that mum needed to do a cataract surgeon to prevent her eyesight from getting any worse.



It was always a good idea to regularly check-up with her cataract surgeon because if it wasn't for her appointment that determined she needed surgery, it would have been devastating to see mum going almost blind. The active busy bee turned into a stinging bee that almost lost sight of where she was going until cataract surgery saved her sight!

















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Selasa, 09 Juni 2020

Losing the Best Chair, at least I already have the Latest chair

In the early period during his second term, in his final year at the University. I studied architecture in high school and was ready to start the term of the last subject before graduating. The environment of the house is quite good in Singapore, I live with my parents, sister, Aunt and my late grandfather. In the final phase of his life that I saw my best chair was broken. I grew up, he lived with my grandmother before moving to live with my family when I was growing up.


At age 16, my grandfather was diagnosed with Alzheimers and slowly got worse the following year. Every day, he would still go to the market with my grandmother, have their breakfast at the nearest coffee shop and spend a lot of time watching television and doing work activities at home and outside. And do not forget to mention a chair and sofa that has been damaged, by visiting his brother to ask the service of repairing chairs, sofas, and sofa seats in the nearest shop in 2020, my grandmother experienced sudden illness, then I took her to the hospital.


Grandma passed away

After my grandmother died, my grandfather spent a lot of time at home. I remember always seeing him sitting in his favorite chair in the living room every morning when I came down from my room. With the balcony window wide open and the cool morning breeze blowing into the house, he would spend the morning watching TV. Because most of my day will be spent outside my house I will rarely spend my food with him or see what he will do during the day, but every time I go home, he will be in his chair.


Sofa seats remind me of grandfather


The seat is actually placed in the best place in the house. Directly, in front of the TV, right next to the park outside and can see anyone who comes to the house. Thinking about it, no one has ever used a chair besides him. As if his name "grandfather" was written on it, that's how much he spent on it.


After he left, we took his seat to the best safe and comfortable sofa upholstery company in our neighborhood in Singapore, which also belonged to my best friend's grandfather's family. It's still in good condition in terms of its structure, but what needs to be changed is the pillow and pillow cover. The chair has been used at home for more than 10 years and the pillow has been worn overtime. It was like, my Grandad's footprint was printed on a chair. I'm not sure if that's common in Singapore, but sofa seats should be one of the best ideas. It is sure to save beats from the past and convert old to new and modern.


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Senin, 08 Juni 2020

How to easily maintain office cleanliness in the workplace when pandemic Corona

Office cleaning tips - The World Health Organization (WHO) announces the status of the virus infection corona (Covid-19) as a pandemic on Wednesday time in Geneva. Pandemic means a disease is contracted to more people in almost the whole world at the same time.


As the pandemic progresses, one of the important precautions is cleanliness in the workplace. Because some daily activities are done on the job site.


Office, being one of the hidden places of viruses and bacteria. Starting from the cracks in the keyboard, the lift button, to the doorknob. The United States Center for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) together with the Occupational Safety and Health Administration (OSHA) issued a number of recommendations for maintaining self-hygiene and workplace during Corona pandemic.


1. Clean the Workplace

Before you start work always clean the workplace using an approved disinfectant or cleaner. Clean the table, computer mouse, office phone, and other objects or surfaces. Give extra attention to the objects that are most often touched.


The correct way to disinfect is the surface tool should stay wet within 3-5 minutes to ensure the germs are dead.


2. Wash your hands periodically

Hand washing is the most effective way to prevent the spread of corona viruses. The king was washing hands before and after eating, having held a doorknob, having held many piles of paper, and after the toilet.


Make sure to wash your hands for 20 seconds with the soap that contains the antiseptic and running water.


3. Hand sanitizer when soap and water No

Use a hand sanitizer as an alternative only if the soap does not exist. For example, when in the middle of a meeting, on the go or, the working state cannot be left behind.


4. Change handshake routines

You should change your handshake routine with your colleagues at work. Corona viruses can move with shaking hands.


Do not hesitate to reject the handshake because it is considered disrespectful. There are many ways to greet and convey respect such as bringing together both palms yourself and bending.


5. Cleans the mobile phone

Don't forget to clean your mobile phone. Mobile phones are the most frequently touched objects even in the workplace.


Wiping a smartphone with wet tissues or soap can remove bacteria and viruses. Rub the mobile phone parts to kill germs.

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Minggu, 07 Juni 2020

Tips For Buying A New Sofa Upholstery Or Replace The Best Sofa Upholster

sofa upholstery Singapore - If you think that buying a sofa does not involve a big decision, you are very wrong.


Sofas, especially modern leather sofas, are really expensive. Therefore, there shouldn't be room for mistakes when shopping for one. If you end up buying the wrong piece and end up hating it after a week or two, replacing it is another expensive investment.


Singapore leather upholstery sofas talk about high quality and elegance. They are quite durable, which makes them last more beautiful and last longer than other types of sofas on the market. However, this does not mean that you can choose just every leather sofa out there. There are many considerations you must keep in mind to ensure that you get just the right one for you. So here, check this pointer when buying a leather sofa:


Learn grades. A full grain aniline leather sofa type is considered to be the priciest and softest on the market. There is also top-grain leather, which is another good choice. However, try to avoid split-grain skin for those usually weak models.


Understand the quality of leather sofas for sale. If you want a leather sofa that will last a long time, consider getting one that has more protection when it comes to scratches, fading, and stains. One good choice is a semi-aniline sofa. This type of sofa is produced with layers and pigments. Conversely, the aniline has no finish or protection in it.


Know the size needed. Measure the space you have and buy the right size of the sofa for space. Make sure it is not too big for tight spaces and not too small for spacious rooms. Also, determine whether a particular sofa choice can suit your home door openings for your convenience.


Contact now also your sofa upholstery upholstery service here

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Kamis, 04 Juni 2020

Wholesale Watches A Sustainable Fashion Industry

Rolex watches make references to products that are charged for easier paying. It is true that people wear rolex watches based on their functions and, obviously, are based on people's expectations the individual items must wear. Rolex watches can protect you from danger when taking part in certain activities such as working, while preparing food so that when taking part in sports activities.

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They prevent injury to the skin and behave as obstacles to poisons and germs. In addition, Rolex watches perform social and cultural functions. For example, rolex watches can identify people as getting a certain job, or can be a marker to be able to distinguish between your genders. In almost all human societies, rolex in malaysia watches reflect the standards of politeness and social status.

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With time, the rolex watch industry has changed and developed because of the accessibility to different fabrics along with the improvement of production methods. Wholesale rolex watches happen to be key wholesale industries for several years. Wholesale Dealers have distribution centers spread all over the world with very low cost offers for wholesale buyers.

This affordable price provides sufficient returns around investments generated by wholesale buyers. In addition, wholesalers have a majority of designs and trends in the market, whether new or old, plus they cover the entire spectrum of various Rolex watch lines that provide good value for buyers.

Dealers of wholesale rolex watches have become more experience in the market, which is clear their mission will be to supply buyers using the best women and men's rolex watches at the best money saving offer. Furthermore individuals who buy rolex watches with low cost benefits, but suppliers also reach their goal of continuing to grow their income. This, consequently, leads to business growth and client satisfaction.

For individuals who have a Rolex retail watch or wholesale store, buying merchandise from a wholesale Rolex watch dealer is the largest and many financially viable options. Wholesale rolex fashion dealer watches have an incredible choice and often offer large bargains that will increase your profits, helping new companies expand their business.

The world of style is very volatile, with trends and designs changing in one moment to another. Therefore, innovative materials and colors that are striking and attractive need to replace obsolete styles. Experienced and trustworthy Wholesale dealers have many years of comprehensive understanding on style and fashion and compete with changes in the market. Their main goal is to ensure that wholesale buyers receive accumulated quality goods at discounted wholesale prices. The ordering process is relatively fast and simple for wholesale Rolex watch buyers.

Customers just choose the style and quantity they need, plus the number of bundles in the chosen style. Processing and shipping of goods is fast because it can certainly take under three working days to get marketing. In addition, tracking to confirm delivery can be achieved so that clients are assured of package security.

Buyers of wholesale Rolex watches must make sure to look for a wholesale dealer resource system to get more and new info about designs and designs available in the market in addition to finding what is in demand.

This helps them sell available shares to make room for brand new orders. People who do not have a wholesale business or retail store for wholesale rolex watches must utilize these details about wholesale dealers to be able to start one.

This can provide good income because individuals will always want rolex watches and buyers will always look for a brand new and classy style to update their stock or rolex malaysia watch cabinets.

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